Connecting with DNA Matches: Using Tools & Technology for Collaboration

Jennifer Zinck, CG®, CGL®, AG®, AGL™
Sep 23, 2026
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Free through September 30, 2026

About this webinar

Whether you have a DNA match you have not yet identified or you’re looking to find someone to test for a specific branch of your family tree, online resources can help! Dive into the unique challenges of working with living people. Learn practical tips for using people finder websites, databases, searches, and social media to identify and locate individuals. Explore ideas to optimize communication and facilitate successful collaboration. Achieve success with DNA connections!

Discount code: webtember26 (valid at familytreewebinars.com)
Valid through: September 30, 2026

About the speaker

Jennifer Zinck is a professional genealogist, writer, editor, and educator who combines evidence-based research with a genuine enthusiasm for uncovering the past. She holds the Certified Genealogist® ...
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Key points and insights

Navigating the complexities of living relatives in genetic genealogy requires a delicate balance of analytical methodology and human empathy. In this insightful webinar session for Webtember, credentialed professional genealogist Jennifer Zink addresses the essential techniques and ethical considerations involved in contacting DNA matches. Researchers working to break through brick walls or resolve misattributed parentage will find actionable strategies for identifying unknown individuals through public records, leveraging social media safely, and conducting respectful outreach. This session serves as an indispensable guide for any genealogist seeking to expand their family tree while maintaining privacy, managing expectations, and prioritizing kindness in living-person research.

Key takeaways from the session include:

  • Prioritize Ethics and Boundaries: Successful genetic genealogy relies on treating living people with respect, obtaining informed consent, reading company terms, and maintaining private "working" trees until unexpected or sensitive biological discoveries are confirmed and appropriately handled.
  • Craft Effective Outreach: First impressions matter when contacting matches; maximize response rates by opening with clear, personalized details about the shared platform, specific kits, probable surnames, and a warm, low-pressure invitation to connect.
  • Utilize Modern Public Records and Aggregators: Locating non-responsive or hidden matches often requires cross-referencing diverse public resources, such as property deeds, business registries, obituaries, digitized historic newspapers, and alumni publications, while carefully evaluating data accuracy.

To unlock the full depth of these strategies, researchers are strongly encouraged to view the complete webinar recording and explore the accompanying syllabus resources. The detailed syllabus offers curated reading lists, downloadable release forms for DNA collaboration, and links to vital public search databases that will elevate your living-person research skills. Take the next step in your genetic genealogy journey today by reviewing the complete session materials!


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  1. TB
    Therese Beckman
    6 hours ago

    This was my first time listening to Jennifer Zink and I’m very impressed and excited to learn more from her. I think she is a most kind, thoughtful person with excellent advice on how to contact DNA matches with care and consideration.

  2. SH
    Susanne Hale
    6 hours ago

    Thanks so much! Very helpful webinar in helping me think about this delicate topic. I would've loved to hear more specifics and examples of messages you don't recommend and how you would reword them. Also more info about how to make info private in a tree would be really helpful. I'm not sure what can be seen by others and what can't and how to make things private. I was also struck by your slide "Don't be creepy." Some examples would be really helpful, since so much info is out on the internet.

  3. SU
    STEPHEN ULLRICH
    6 hours ago

    Great overview of DNA genealogy ethics, searching strategies and what to do and not to do when contacting DNA matches. Great list of new research resources.

  4. LD
    Lawrence Doyle
    6 hours ago

    Several new potential sources and a great reminder about privacy and permission

  5. SB
    Sandra Bernard
    6 hours ago

    Loving all of these "new to me" tips and places to search and how to be kind when/if contacting a possible relative. I will be watching this again more closely and taking notes! Thank you, Family Tree Webinars, for continuing to bring new and updated content!

  6. KC
    Kristina Clever
    6 hours ago

    I learn something new with every webinar. I never thought to look for my black sheep relative on the Federal Bureau of Prisons Inmate Index.

  7. GH
    Gloria Hughes
    6 hours ago

    Great webinar, I have recently had a match that is a half brother. Not sure of he was aware of this or not. His mother and uncle lived in the same neighborhood that I grew up in. I reached out with a brief message, but thinking of doing another with more detail or reaching out to a cousin that he would know.

  8. CM
    Carla Marcelis
    6 hours ago

    Good speaker and lots of useful information